Lemon Shortbread Cookies with Lemon Icing {A Tribute to Aunt Roxanne}

Today’s post and recipe are dedicated to my cool Aunt Roxanne.


Every girl needs a “cool aunt.” When you are younger, your cool aunt takes you to her neighborhood pool, where you sip Fresca, munch the Cool Ranch Doritos your mom refuses to buy, and gossip about boys. When you are older, your cool aunt takes you to her favorite Mexican restaurant, where you slurp Margaritas, eat too much queso dip, and gossip about boys. Your cool aunt has the right advice for any situation, makes friends everywhere she goes, and is probably the most stylish person you have ever met. All of the above and more perfectly describes my cool Aunt Roxanne.

Last week, I received the shocking news that Roxanne had passed away unexpectedly. A cherished friend, aunt, sister, and daughter, she was taken from us too soon at the young age of 54.

Times of grief and heartbreak often leave me feeling powerless. I am not gifted with eloquence to offer soft words of comfort like my sister, with practicality and organization to accomplish important tasks like my mom, or with perspective to see the bigger picture like Ben. Most of the time, I find myself wandering aimlessly, trying to look busy, but really having no clue what I should do or how I should feel.

My default course of action when helpless: I bake.


The most dreadful of events—the death of a loved one; a natural disaster; an undeserved, violent attack— are often the ones I observe to be the most senseless. Faced with inexplicable, irrational tragedy, I find solace in the consistency and predictability of baking. A certain amount of specific ingredients, combined in a certain order, yield (almost) certain results. In my tiny kitchen-corner of the world, I can assert a measure of authority and define my dessert destiny. In a faulty world, it is comforting to reaffirm that butter and sugar will still whip into a sweet, fluffy frenzy.


Lemon Shortbread Cookies with Lemon Icing are a tribute to my Aunt Roxanne. In the words of a friend, Roxanne was “sassy, classy, and fun.” With their bright flavor and classic flair, Lemon Shortbread Cookies with Lemon Icing are a tribute to her shining personality.


Lemon Shortbread Cookies with Lemon Icing are everything a shortbread cookie should be—buttery and tender with a nice crisp—with a bonus burst of citrus energy. Just as Roxanne brought life and excitement everywhere she went, these cookies will boost your mood and animate your spirit.


And they sparkle! A final dusting of sanding sugar adds extra pizazz to Lemon Shortbread Cookies with Lemon Icing. I choose pink in honor of Roxanne’s battle with breast cancer; I choose the sparkliest pink available, because Roxanne was a lady that lit up a room.

All of our lives could use a bit of extra shine, so why not start with our cookies?


Lemon Shortbread Cookies with Lemon Icing have a classic, comforting taste that is solace until itself. Buttery, melt-in-your-mouth shortbread eptimomizes how truly delightful the unity of three simple ingredients—butter, sugar, and flour—can be, and the sunny citrus will brighten your spirit.


Lemon Shortbread Cookies with Lemon Icing will bring joy to your day and a bit of comfort to your world; I know they have to mine. Thank you for allowing me to remember my cool Aunt Roxanne to share this bit of baked peace with you.


Cookie recipe adapted from Ina Garten

About Erin Clarke

I’m fearlessly dedicated to making healthy food taste incredible. Wearer of plaid, travel enthusiast, and firmly convinced that sweets and veggies both deserve a place at the table. MORE ABOUT ERIN…


  1. What a wonderful way to honor your cool Aunt! The pink icing is so fun!

  2. sending you a big hug and praying for your family – Aunt Roxane was lucky to have a niece like you and I’m sure you lit up her life! xo

  3. Aw :( So sorry for your loss — I’m sure she’s smiling down at you for making these! I always bake in tough times, too. Baking certainly mends the soul.

  4. I’m so sorry for your loss :( Even if you don’t have the eloquence of your sister or organization of your mother, at least stress-baking allows other people to stress eat (which I find a very important part of the healing process).

    • Kelly, I could not agree with you more! We have plenty of stress baking/eating happening on all sides lately, but it’s a tasty way to cope. Thanks for your kind comment.

  5. I’m so sorry for your loss Erin :( I hope things get better for you and your family soon.

  6. oh erin i am so sorry to hear about your aunt…sending hugs to you….the cookies with pink frosting look perfect and so sweet for your aunt. xoxo angela

  7. cool ranch doritos, fresca, hanging with my cool aunt – YES! reminds me of my childhood. I’m so sorry to hear about your aunt Erin. What a beautiful and sweet post dedicated to her. Many prayers.

  8. I am sorry to hear about your aunt. She sounds like a kick ass women and somebody I would have like to known. These lemon cookies though bring a brightness to an otherwise gloomy situation. Hope things get better!

  9. Those look fantastic! I love all the pink and sprinkles!

  10. I’m sorry for your loss.
    I also have a cool aunt. Maybe I should bake her some of these delicious cookies

  11. Erin, I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. My dad left us 6 weeks ago and when I feel like crying, I head to the kitchen to bake. He was an amazing cook so I know he’s right there with me enjoying the mess and heavenly smells. I can’t wait to try these :)

    • Hi Trudy, I’m so sorry for your loss as well. I have no doubt that your dad is cooking right beside you too! Wishing you peace and comfort (and a kitchen filled with messes and heavenly smells :)) Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

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